The Glamorous Art of Being a Stay-At-Home Girlfriend.

 Hey Babes!

Welcome back to the blog! Today, I’m letting you in on a more personal side of my life. As you may know, I’m a stay-at-home girlfriend, and while that title might conjure certain assumptions, my life is anything but stereotypical.

There’s a common misconception that being a stay-at-home girlfriend means waiting around all day for your partner or that your life lacks purpose or excitement. Let me tell you—it’s so much more than that. I see this role as an opportunity to create a lifestyle that’s fulfilling, vibrant, and uniquely mine.

From mindful mornings to indulgent self-care, productive routines, and special moments with Alex, I’ve found ways to make my everyday life feel luxurious and intentional. So, without further ado, here’s a glimpse into my world as a stay-at-home girlfriend in Seoul.

Part 1: Mindful Mornings

Mornings in our penthouse are quiet and peaceful. By the time I wake up, Alex is usually already up, either getting ready for work or finishing up his morning routine. I enjoy the calmness of having the space to myself for a while.

I start my day with a light breakfast—sometimes it’s something simple like avocado toast or a fresh smoothie. If Alex is home, we cook together, which is a small ritual we’ve come to cherish. Afterward, I take some time to refresh myself. I indulge in a warm bath or shower, savoring the simplicity of the moment. It’s all about slowing down and making mundane tasks feel special.

Then, I go through my skincare routine—layering my favorite products while I think about the day ahead. It’s not just about skincare, but about taking that time for myself to feel pampered and centered. Once my skin feels refreshed, I style my hair in something simple yet elegant and pull out my outfit for the day.

Whether I’m in loungewear or a soft dress, I dress for comfort but with a sense of intention. Getting ready in the mornings sets the tone for the rest of my day, giving me space to feel good, look good, and embrace whatever comes next.

Part 2: A Day in The Life

My days are flexible, but I’ve created a routine that gives me a balance of productivity, relaxation, and fun.

On Mondays and Thursdays, I focus on content creation. These are my dedicated writing days, where I brainstorm ideas, work on blog posts, and plan social media content. It’s my creative outlet, and I love how these days let me dive deep into my passion. I also take the time to photograph, edit, and prepare visuals that align with my brand. While it’s a lot of work, I thrive on these days because I get to do something I truly enjoy.

Tuesdays and Fridays are more practical. I head out for grocery shopping, picking up fresh ingredients from the local markets. I also take this time to buy new decor or refresh the aesthetic of our home. The house is always a priority—keeping it clean, organized, and looking beautiful is something I enjoy. It’s a bit of a therapy for me. Afterward, I’ll cook a nice meal, often experimenting with new recipes to surprise Alex when he gets home.

Wednesdays and Saturdays are for fun. I love to explore Seoul, whether it’s visiting a new museum, checking out art galleries, or shopping in trendy districts like Itaewon or Garosugil. These days are my chance to step out of the house and soak in new experiences, whether that’s strolling through a boutique or attending a workshop. I also meet up with friends or join a local club to keep things social and engaging.

Let’s talk about last Wednesday. I spent the afternoon at the National Museum of Korea, getting lost in the history and culture. The museum is one of my favorite places to visit because I can spend hours admiring the exhibits. Afterward, I grabbed coffee in a cozy café nearby and people-watched for a while. It’s little moments like these that make my week feel complete.

Part 3: Beautiful Evenings

Evenings are when I get to truly unwind and enjoy quality time with Alex. We try to make the most of our nights together, especially with his demanding job. We’ve carved out a special routine, making sure to prioritize our connection amidst our busy lives.

On Tuesdays and Thursdays, we have date nights—these are our dedicated evenings to disconnect from work and enjoy each other’s company. One of our favorite things to do is explore new, intimate spots around the city. A recent date night took us to a private dining room at a luxury restaurant in the heart of Seoul. The space was beautifully designed, offering panoramic views of the city skyline as we dined on exquisite multi-course meals. We sipped wine, talked about everything and nothing, and savored the time we had away from the hustle of the day.

After dinner, we often take a walk around the neighborhood or find a cozy café for dessert and tea. Sometimes, we just head back to the penthouse, where we relax in the living room, listening to music or talking about our day. We love watching a show or catching up on a movie that we’ve both been wanting to see. It’s these simple moments that make our connection feel so special.

Once we’re ready for bed, my night routine kicks in. I wind down with a calming skincare routine—think soothing oils, hydrating masks, and gentle creams that prepare my skin for a restful night. Afterward, I like to read a book or indulge in some light journaling. It helps clear my mind and puts me in a peaceful state before sleep. If it’s been a particularly long day, I’ll also enjoy a calming cup of herbal tea, which helps me feel centered.

Before we drift off, Alex and I often chat about our plans for the next day, laugh about something silly, or just enjoy being in each other’s company. It's in these quiet moments that we truly relax and feel grateful for the life we’re building together.

Thank you for reading until the end! I do appreciate everyone who reads my blog articles. If you like this article, be sure to let me know in the comments! I would like to post more of my personal life every now and then, I think it would be fun.

Kisses, Scarlette